Charlotte
This site is wonderful. I have a loving husband who adores my vagina, but I have always said to him I hate it and want a ‘designer vagina’ due to my large labia, this site has really helped seeing their are so many women out there like me, I am 37 and been married for 10 years but have found this site very reassuring, thank you.
I used to hate my labia and i didn't think it was normal, but after looking through the photos on your blog I realize how normal mine is! There is not one ugly labia submitted on this blog xxx
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I am a 40 year old woman and as I grew older I became more and...
I am a 40 year old woman and as I grew older I became more and more self-conscious about my labia. I don't know what started it, or when, and no lover of mine ever complained (I hid them as much I as I could), so I'm guessing it's all about the media. It is so stupid society does this. I am tall, have long legs and fingers, large breasts also, so it would be only natural I would have large labia, but I thought I was a freak.
I just wish I had known this blog earlier. This is the first time I ever talk about this, and it feels great. I think I´m finally starting to accept and enjoy how I am, and by doing so I will also be able to enjoy sex more.
I just wanted to say thank you for creating this site and posting everything you have. My ex...
I just wanted to say thank you for creating this site and posting everything you have. My ex boyfriend continually called me “roast beef” and would make fun of me, and I hated it to the point of researching a way to change it. Thanks to you, I have realized that I should just embrace myself the way I am.
is it weird to have one bigger than the other :(
Not at all. Our bodies aren't symmetrical.
I love what you are doing! Spreading the word that all females don't look like barbie dolls is amazing!!! I used to be very insecure with my labia but with the help of websites like this one I concurred my insecurity! yay!
That's why we're here! Glad to be of service.
I'm 25. I've been very self conscious over my naked...
I'm 25. I've been very self conscious over my naked body, not only do I have larger lips but inverted nipples too.. I've often considered surgery for both! (absurd i know!) But can I just say Thankyou for this site, and all your posts from my fellow larger lipped gals.. You're all just so beautiful and I feel very supported and comforted to see I'm not alone. Lets embrace out beauty!
I am 25 years old. I felt like there was something wrong with me...
I am 25 years old. I felt like there was something wrong with me and only in the past few years have I begun to research large labia thinking that I was the only one with big lips. I have grown to accept my labia as beautiful and I am happy to see that there are other women out there like me. Thanks in part to a guy that I was with who loved them. I have confidence in myself and my sexuality. Thank you for sites like this one, allowing woman to embrace themselves as who they are. Beautiful.
What a lovely message to get
Hi there. I found this site yesterday and today I am like a new woman! I’m 27 years old and since puberty have felt like my large labia were some kind of deformity. In my teenage years I never really fully enjoyed my sexual encounters despite so many of them being potentially amazing; I always held back from letting my pussy being fully seen. Looking back I realise I was holding back from orgasm, too because I thought it was ugly. I never had negative comments during sex but over the years I heard men and women alike (mostly my female peers) making comments about how ugly elongated labia are. Also, growing up seeing “perfect porno pussies” at about the same time as those really f****ing annoying medical diagrams that are everywhere from school books to tampon packets, showing minor labia that is tiny and contained within the major labia. All this made me grow to hate my vagina. I am now married and my husband has worshipped my body since the first moment and loves performing oral sex on me, and this has helped meimmensly but really until seeing this wonderful blog I was still hating my lips on a daily basis. Every time I shaved, bought a bikini, even being eaten out by my husband, even just getting dressed. Basically everytime I had to see it. After seeing the beautiful photos here, and seeing how empowering it is for a woman to be the author of such intimate images (for once not taken by a guy for the purpose of male pleasue) I now know that not only are my lips normal - they are beautiful! Wow! I feel like I have a brand new pussy and just wanna try it out constantly! Until this moment I hadn’t realised my pussy was so detached emotionally from my body like a horrible growth, and I can’t believe I was approaching my sexuality so ill equipped.. Now I love my pussy I will be kinder to myself and have a better self image. I am seriously also going to enjoy sex and masturbation sooo much yay! And i feel like a giant cloud has passed. I can’t thank enough the creators of this blog, the women who submit their stunning and sexy and empowering photos and also the many men who write comments to remind us how much they love us as we are. Much love x
Humbled by your contribution. Thank you.
A slight critic
Hey, as a male I love this site, after dating many girls who were so concerned about the looks of their labia I know how important it is for women everywhere to know that different isn’t bad, and all shapes and sizes are beautiful.
That said, I noticed a comment, “I know, tragic. Can you imagine a programme about men talking about how much they hate their impressively large penis… ” while I understand the primary concern of this website is to promote acceptance of self and women in general isn’t it kind of hypocritical then critic the male genitals? Even if it is positive it implies there is a negative, and as someone who speaks to males, obviously, I know that many men are concerned with the appearance as well as size of their genitals as well.
Keep up the good work but keep in mind the men as well :)
response: It’s not a criticicism of male genitals, it’s a comment on a state of mind that doesn’t seem to be equal between the two genders.
I'm 38 and have been comparing my labia to others my whole...
I'm 38 and have been comparing my labia to others my whole life just like many others on here. It is such a relief to not be alone. Thank you for helping me start to feel normal and beautiful.
Great news!!
Thank you so much for this site, I can't believe I ever thought I was anything other than beautiful and normal. Thank you for making me realise that I can love my vagina as much as my boyfriend does and that everybody's labia is different. I feel empowered! I'm 30 years old, I only wish I had realised this years ago.
Dark Lips
This is the best site in the world! I thought I acquired my long dark labia by having too much sex, or that I was just born with an ugly one. I’m 36 and after years of scouring porn sites and blogs this is the first one that made me certain that I’m normal. After seeing other even larger and more importantly darker lips, I’m actually realizing that we have pretty nice looking pussies!
Perhaps not the best site in the world, but hopefully a helpful one!
Hello. So glad to have found this page. Makes me feel just a bit more normal
that's what it's here for.
I've been extremely insecure about my vagina since I was 18. I'm...
I've been extremely insecure about my vagina since I was 18. I'm 22 now. I hated how dark the outer part of the lips are, and how there is, what seems like, excess skin along the perineum. I felt like I caused this excess tissue from masturbation, which may be true. I still have days were I hate my vagina and feel dirty/ugly because of the coloration, and would be happy to have a surgery to remove the perineum tissue (what looks like skin tags), but never the labia!! I'm really happy to have found this blog, I feel better about myself, and everything I've seen here is unique and beautiful it it's own way. Stay strong girls!!
I love the way my pussy feels, and the way i can make it feel. I...
I love the way my pussy feels, and the way i can make it feel. I like the color, tightness, and my high sex drive. As long as i can remember I've struggled to love my lips, I've considered labiaplasty, and although this blog has helped me to realize how unique & beautiful everyone is I still feel for me to fully appreciate my body i may have it done eventually before 30, I am 27 now, besides being cosmetic it can be uncomfortable sometimes during sex & other activities, and I feel self conscious in underwear bikinis etc…. Thank you for sharing this site, and helping women have a more realistic view on their bodies :))
Thank you. We thought it important to post your message because you're not contemplating a labiaplasty due to being uninformed or or unaware of what normal labia look like. At the end of the day, a person's peace of mind and comfort in themselves is what's important. It's easy to jump on the ban/forbid/prevent labiaplasty bandwagon - but that would be just as irresponsible and short-sighted. To have the operation when you're young and subject to so many conflicting (uninformed) opinions is unwise, but as with any cosmetic surgery, once you've reached an age where you can make an informed, mature and rational decision it'd be silly to still insist that you don't do it.
However, bear in mind that once it's gone, it's gone: along with all of the benefits you mention in your first sentence. Is several thousand dollars value for money to slice off a normal part of your body that no-one but you and your lover will see, and with the benefits it also brings? If it were really that much of an issue, wouldn't you have done it already by now?
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24 yr old woman here, just wanting to contribute. And thank you...
24 yr old woman here, just wanting to contribute.
And thank you for doing so :)
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